per⋅se⋅ver⋅ance [pur-suh-veer-uhns]
–noun 1. steady persistence in a course of action, a purpose, a state, etc., esp. in spite of difficulties, obstacles, or discouragement.
Last night I sat down to help my kindergartner with his homework. He was given a book to bring home and the note said that the parent needed to listen to their child read it 3 times before the book could be signed off. OK, let's do this.

The first time reading through the book was quite laboring. It's OK to say that, right? I didn't mind so much because it gave me a chance to sit down and rest, but I know for him, it had to have been a bit exhausting trying to sound out new words one by one.
So we finished round 1 of the book and now it was to round 2. This time, the sounds came a little easier for him. He was becoming more adjusted to the words on the page. I was so proud of him. But by round 3, there was no holding back! He was reading these same repetitive sentences with more enthusiasm and expression!
I get why his teacher asked for this assignment to be done 3 times.
Perseverance works.
And then it hit me. That quote from Thomas Edison that I have always loved. He said,
"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work." There's been a lot of times in my life when this has been the case. Here's one small example. Last year I wanted to create a pattern for a patchwork bucket hat. Being a fabric collector (OK, fabric-holic if you will), I had envisioned how cute it would be to combine so many different fabrics into one hat. A great way to top off that perfect little outfit!
So I went to work. Oh my. OK, maybe I didn't sew this out 10,000 times, but literally after a dozen attempts at this, (and trust me, it felt like 10,000!) I was completely beyond frustration. Here is the proof:

I don't really like to keep things like this that no longer serve a purpose, but this time I decided to hold onto them so I could show my children all of the terrible "attempts" I made to finally get the end result I wanted. A good lesson to learn I hope.
So I didn't give up. The amazing
CarlaC and I then collaborated our efforts and the result of that is now
The Reversible Patchwork Bucket Hat. 
Like I said before, this really is such a small thing, but hopefully illustrates an important point. Just because we've tried something once, twice, or even more, and it doesn't work out as originally we had hoped for,
it's perfectly OK!Just because I start an exercise program and I "fall off the bus" for awhile, does that mean I just completely say it's not worth it?
Do I give up because I'm tired of failing?Perhaps my brave attempts at making the perfect dinner for my family are only welcomed with reactions of disgust such as, "Ew! That looks gross!" or "Not
this again!"
Should I stop trying to plan healthy meals which bring us together at the dinner table?Maybe someone you know "snubbed" you while you were in town and didn't share a warm hello. Does that mean that this person doesn't care about you? Do I decide not to make any future effort towards our friendship or even association? Over the years, one thing I have really learned time and time again is this.
Everyone has a story. We just never know what that other person might be going through in their lives. "Benefit of the doubt" is a very good thing.
Well, the list can go on and on I'm sure. So while it's very normal to have some of these feelings in our lives, I think it's during these times we have to just
dig deep and keep "truckin" as my little boy says. ;)
What do you think?